When I went to NY to visit this past Thanksgiving, which was just over 2 months ago, at the time I wasn’t thinking this feature photo would have so much riding on it. I went to Allentown PA. as part of my visit for a day, to visit my grandmother. We got her outside and I shot a portrait of her with my old Canon AE1 35mm, had a fresh roll of 100 speed Kodal Ektar loaded in. I didn’t have any lighting or reflectors, nothing fancy, all bare bones. But the point is I made what I had work, and thought to take her portrait. I’ve lost some opportunities in the past that I regret. So I’ve been guilty of it too. People you are around even on a regular basis, you never know if you’ll have another day together in this life. So it’s important to capture the good times on camera of those you appreciate and love. I can look in my old photo albums and see many examples of just that. I think it’s a real shame that some people have gotten away from the print and the album. If you are raising children and don’t have these to show them, and providing photos for them except what is on your phone or computer, as far as I’m concerned, you’re short changing them. If this offends you, it’s intended to. LOL.
I didn’t know that photo would be the last one of Granny I’d ever get. And perhaps no one else has gotten one since then either. So, I’ve lost some, as far as those I wish I’d photographed a little more, or a little sooner. But I feel like I won here by getting this photo. She passed away a little less than a month ago, from short illness. It’s a hard adjustment for the whole family, but we all agree on two things. It’s good that she had 104 years and made each year count. And she didn’t have a long illness and have to suffer, she completed her task here on earth and wants the same for us all. Whether it’s hiring a portrait photographer to capture your family together, or photographing fun shots of your friends yourself, it’s an important investment. Some whine and cry about having to pay a photographer, but if a case like this happens, they later realize how valuable of a purchase it was
I love capturing stories and memories for my clients, it;s what I do. But I have to remember to do the same with those who are a regular part of my life as well. I hope this inspires all of you to not miss these moments. This photo isn’t just for me to have and enjoy, but is also very valuable to others in the family. You just never know.










